शायरी (२३-०४-२०१२)

तकदीरें बदल जाती है, जब ज़िन्दगी का कोई मकसद हो;
वरना ज़िन्दगी तो कट ही जाती है, तकदीर को इल्जाम देते देते!

पास आपके दुनिया का हर सितारा हो;
दूर आपसे गम का हर किनारा हो;
जब भी आपकी पलकें खुलें;
सामने वही हो जो आपको दुनिया में सबसे प्यारा हो!

कुछ अमल भी ज़रूरी है, इबादत के लिए;
सिर्फ सजदा करने से, किसी को जन्नत नहीं मिलती!

मुलाकातें रह जाती है सुहानी यादें बनकर;
बातें रह जाती है कहानी बनकर;
पर प्यार तो हमेशा दिल के करीब रहता है;
कभी होंठों पे मुस्कान तो कभी आँखों में पानी बनकर!

खफा न होना हमसे, अगर तेरा नाम जुबां पर आ जाये;
इंकार हुआ तो सह लेंगे और अगर दुनिया हंसी, तो कह देंगे;
कि मोहब्बत कोई चीज़ नहीं, जो खैरात में मिल जाये;
चमचमाता कोई जुगनू नहीं, जो हर रात में मिल जाये;

ज़िदगी जाने कितने मोड़ लेती है, हर मोड़ पर नए सवाल देती है;
तलाशते रहते हैं हम जवाब ज़िन्दगी भर;
और जब जवाब मिल जाये तो ज़िन्दगी सवाल बदल देती है!

जाने उस शक्स को कैसा ये हुनर आता है;
रात होती है तो आँख में उतर आता है;
मैं उसके ख्याल से निकलूं तो कहाँ जाऊं;
वो मेरी सोच के हर रास्ते पर नज़र आता है!

प्यार आ जाता है, आँखों में रोने से पहले;
हर ख्वाब टूट जाता है, सोने से पहले;
इश्क है गुनाह, यह तो समझ गए हम;
काश कोई रोक लेता, ये गुनाह होने से पहले!

हमने तेरे बाद न रखी किसी से मोहब्बत की आस;
एक शक्स ही बहुत था जो सब कुछ सिखा गया!

तकदीरें बदल जाती है, जब ज़िन्दगी का कोई मकसद हो;
वरना ज़िन्दगी तो कट ही जाती है, तकदीर को इल्जाम देते देते!

The 7 Timeless Virtues of Enlightened Living

Extracted From "The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari" by Robin Sharma



Master your Mind


Follow your Purpose


Practice Kaizen


Live with Discipline


Respect your Time


Selflessly Serve Others


Embrace the Present

Original Bengali Version of India's National Anthem

Bengali script

জনগণমন-অধিনায়ক জয় হে.
ভারতভাগ্যবিধাতা
পঞ্জাব সিন্ধু গুজরাট মরাঠা
দ্রাবিড় উৎ‍‌কল বঙ্গ
বিন্ধ্য হিমাচল যমুনা গঙ্গা
উচ্ছল জলধি তরঙ্গ
তব শুভ নামে জাগে
তব শুভ আশিস মাগে
গাহে তব জয়গাথা
জনগণমঙ্গলদায়ক জয় হে
ভারতভাগ্যবিধাতা
জয় হে, জয় হে, জয় হে,
জয় জয় জয়, জয় হে॥

Bengali phonemic transcription

Jônogônomono-odhinaeoko jôeô he
Bharotobhaggobidhata
Pônjabo Shindhu Gujoraṭo Môraṭha
Drabiṛo Utkôlo Bônggo
Bindho Himachôlo Jomuna Gôngga
Uchchhôlo jôlodhi toronggo
Tôbo shubho name jage
Tôbo shubho ashish mage
Gahe tôbo jôeogatha
Jônogônomonggolodaeoko jôeô he
Bharotobhaggobidhata
Jôeo he, jôeo he, jôeo he,
jôeo jôeo jôeo, jôeo he

English Translation of India's National Anthem

Thou art the ruler of the minds of all people,
Dispenser of India's destiny.
Thy name rouses the hearts of Punjab, Shindhu,
Gujarat and Maratha,
Of the Dravida and Orisa and Bangla;
It echoes in the hills of the Vindhyas and Himalayas,
mingles in the music of Jamuna and Ganges and is
chanted by the waves of the Indian Ocean.
They pray for thy blessings and sing thy praise.
The saving of all people waits in thy hand,
Thou dispenser of India's destiny.
victory forever.

Amazing Facts about India

• India is the world's largest, oldest, continuous civilization.
• India is the world's Largest democracy.
• India never invaded any country in her last 1000 years of history.
• India invented the number system. Zero was invented by Aryabhatta.
• When many cultures were only nomadic forest dwellers over 5000 years ago, Indians established Harappan culture in Sindhu Valley (Indus Valley Civilization)
• There are 300,000 active mosques in India , more than in any other country, including the Muslim world
• Sanskrit is the mother of all the European Languages . Sanskrit is the most suitable language for computer software - a report in Forbes magzine July 1987.
• Chess (Shataranja or AshtaPada) was invented in India.
• India is one of the few countries in the world, which gain independence without violence.
• India has the second largest pool of Scientist and Engineers in the World.
• India is the largest English speaking nation in the world.
• India is the only country other than US and Japan, to have built a super computer indeigenously.
• India has the largest number of Post Offices in the world
• The largest employer in the world is the Indian Railways , employing over a million people
• India was one of the richest countries till the time of British rule in the early 17th Century. Christopher Columbus, attracted by India's wealth, had come looking for a sea route to India when he discovered America by mistake.
• The Baily Bridge is the highest bridge in the world. It is located in the Ladakh valley between the Dras and Suru rivers in the Himalayan mountains. It was built by the Indian Army in August 1982
• The Vishnu Temple in the city of Tirupathi built in the 10th century, is the world's largest religious pilgrimage destination. Larger than either Rome or Mecca, an average of 30,000 visitors donate $6 million (US) to the temple everyday.
• Varanasi, also known as Benaras, was called "the Ancient City" when Lord Buddha visited it in 500 B.C., and is the oldest, continuously inhabited city in the world today.
• Martial Arts were first created in India, and later spread to Asia by Buddhist missionaries.
• Yoga has its origins in India and has existed for over 5,000 years.
• The name 'India' is derived from the River Indus, the valleys around which were the home of the early settlers. The Aryan worshippers referred to the river Indus as the Sindhu.
• The Persian invaders converted it into Hindu. The name 'Hindustan' combines Sindhu and Hindu and thus refers to the land of the Hindus
• Algebra, Trigonometry and Calculus are studies, which originated in India.
• The world's highest cricket ground is in Chail, Himachal Pradesh. Built in 1893 after leveling a hilltop, this cricket pitch is 2444 meters above sea level
• Ayurveda is the earliest school of medicine known to mankind. The Father of Medicine, Charaka, consolidated Ayurveda 2500 years ago.
• India exports software to 90 countries.
• Jainism and Buddhism were founded in India in 600 B.C. and 500 B.C. respectively.
• Islam is India's and the world's second largest religion.
• Jews and Christians have lived continuously in India since 200 B.C. and 52 A.D. respectively
• Sikhism originated in the Holy city of Amritsar in Punjab. Famous for housing the Golden Temple, the city was founded in 1577.

शायरी (०९-०४-२०१२)

तेरी बेवफाई ने मेरा ये हाल कर दिया है;
मैं नहीं रोती, लोग मुझे देख कर रोते हैं!

अगर कोई पूछे जिंदगी में क्या खोया क्या पाया?
तो बिना झिझक कह देना जो कुछ खोया वो मेरी नादानी है;
और जो पाया वो मेरे रब की मेहरबानी है!

तकदीर बनाने वाले, तूने भी हद कर दी;
तकदीर में किसी और का नाम लिखा था;
और दिल में चाहत किसी और की भर दी!

खो जाओ मुझ में तो मालूम हो कि दर्द क्या है?
ये वो किस्सा है जो जुबान से बयाँ नही होता!

हमसे बदल गये वो निगाहें तो क्या हुआ
जिंदा हैं कितने लोग मोहब्बत किये बगैर!

मरता नहीं कोई किसी के बगैर ये हकीकत है ज़िन्दगी की
लेकिन सिर्फ सांसें लेने को 'जीना' तो नहीं कहते!

Beautiful Lines to Inspire

Everyone is gifted - but some people never open their package

Sometimes the object of the journey is not the end but the journey itself.

Don't keep your dreams in your eyes, they may fall as tears. Keep them in your heart so that every heart beat can remind you about them.

Being a good person is like a goal keeper. No matter how many goals you save, people will remember only that you missed.

Sometimes God closes all doors & shuts all the windows. During those times, trust Him because may be there is storm outside and He wants u safe.

Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm

Life is like a book: what matters is how good it is, not how long it is

Do not fear going forward slowly; fear only to stand still

The size of your success is measured by the strength of your desire; the size of your dream; and how u handles disappointment along the way

A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty

Cry as hard as you want to. But just make sure that when you stop crying, you should never cry again for the same reason.

The moment you know yourself you have known the most precious thing in existence.

A wise man once sat in the audience & cracked a joke. All laughed like crazy. After a moment he cracked the same joke again and a little less people laughed this time. He cracked the same joke again & again, When there was no laughter in the crowd, he smiled and said "When you can't laugh on the same joke again & again, then why do u keep crying over the same thing over and over again. Forget the past & move on."

Every flower blooms in its own sweet time.

Every thing is easy, when you are busy and nothing is easy when you r lazy

If a Person is Silent, it doesn’t’ t mean He is unknown of Fun n Enjoyment. But It means Life has taught Him some Lessons which has made Him Silent..

A Fantastic Sentence written on every Japanese Bus Stop.."Only Buses Will Stop Here, not your Time..So Keep Walking Towards your Goal."

An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward. So when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it's going to launch you into something great. So just focus, and keep aiming!

A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.
Achieving your goal is like trying to touch a Star. If you cannot touch keep trying. If your hard work is true. One day the Star will fall on Earth for You!

Life is much like Facebook...People will like your Problems and Comments but no one is going to solve them...because everybody seems so busy in updating their own

The person who knows HOW will always have a job. The person who knows WHY will always be his boss.

Quotes(07-04-2012)

"Keeping score of old scores and scars, getting even and

one-upping, always makes you less than you are."

-- Malcolm Forbes

"It's always a pleasure to find something that matters."

-- Don Cornelius

"Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It's

already tomorrow in Australia."

-- Charles Schulz

"Never fear shadows. They simply mean there's a light shining

somewhere nearby."

-- Ruth Renkel

"The more tranquil a man becomes, the greater is his success,

his influence, his power for good. Calmness of mind is one of

the beautiful jewels of wisdom."

-- James Allen

"Vice may triumph for a time, crime may flaunt its victories

in the face of honest toilers, but in the end the law will

follow the wrong-doer to a bitter fate, and dishonor and

punishment will be the portion of those who sin."

-- Allan Pinkerton

"A man would do nothing if he waited until he could do it so

well that no one would find fault with what he has done."

-- Cardinal Newman

"Life is too short to spend your precious time trying to

convince a person who wants to live in gloom and doom

otherwise. Give lifting that person your best shot, but don't

hang around long enough for his or her bad attitude to pull

you down. Instead, surround yourself with optimistic people."

-- Zig Ziglar

"The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you

cannot do."

-- Walter Bagehot

"Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true

wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is

true power."

-- Lao-Tzu

"I say to my child, I will explain to you as much of life as I

can, but you must remember that there is a part of life for

which you are the explanation."

-- Robert Brault

"A man wrapped up in himself makes a very small bundle."

-- Benjamin Franklin.

"I want to put a ding in the universe."

-- Steve Jobs

"A youth becomes a man when the marks he wants to leave on the

world have nothing to do with tires."

-- Unknown

"If A equals success, then the formula is: A = X+Y+Z, where X

is work, Y is play, and Z is keep your mouth shut."

-- Albert Einstein

"There is no end. There is no beginning. There is only the

infinite passion of life."

-- Frederico Fellini

"Nobody will think you're somebody if you don't think so yourself."

-- African Proverb

"It's never crowded along the extra mile"

-- Wayne Dyer

Quotes(06-04-2012)

"You just can't beat the person who won't give up."

-- Babe Ruth

"No man in the world has more courage than the man who can

stop after eating one peanut."

-- Channing Pollack

"Genius is the ability to put into effect what is on your

mind."

-- F. Scott Fitzgerald

"If people concentrated on the really important things in

life, there'd be a shortage of fishing poles."

-- Doug Larson

"Sometimes we must get hurt in order to grow. We must fail in

order to know. Sometimes our vision is clear only after our

eyes are washed away with tears."

-- Unknown

"The surest sign that intelligent life exists elsewhere in the

universe is that it has never tried to contact us."

-- Bill Watterson

"Life is part positive and part negative. Suppose you went to

hear a symphony orchestra and all they played were the little

happy high notes. Would you leave soon? Let me hear the rumble

of the bass, the crash of the cymbals and the minor keys."

-- Jim Rohn

"Look, I don't want to wax philosophic, but I will say that if

you're alive you've got to flap your arms and legs, you've got

to jump around a lot, for life is the very opposite of death,

and therefore you must at the very least think noisy and

colorfully, or you're not alive."

-- Mel Brooks

"I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed

by belief."

-- Gerry Spence

"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do

him absolutely no good."

-- Samuel Johnson

"This art of resting the mind and the power of dismissing from

it all care and worry is probably one of the secrets of energy

in our great men."

-- Captain J. A. Hadfield

"There are only two kinds of people who are really

fascinating: people who know absolutely everything, and people

who know absolutely nothing."

-- Oscar Wilde

"If I were given the opportunity to present a gift to the next

generation, it would be the ability for each individual to

learn to laugh at himself."

-- Charles Schulz

"The truth is that there is nothing noble in being superior to

somebody else. The only real nobility is in being superior to

your former self."

-- Whitney Young

"Education is a wonderful thing. If you couldn't sign your

name you'd have to pay cash."

-- Rita Mae Brown

"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide

your problems are your own. You don't blame them on your

mother, the ecology, or the President. You realize that you

control your own destiny."

-- Albert Ellis

"Just because something doesn't do what you planned it to do

doesn't mean it's useless."

-- Thomas Alva Edison

"To make mistakes is human; to stumble is commonplace; to be

able to laugh at yourself is maturity."

-- William A. Ward

"Instead of thinking about where you are, think about where

you want to be. It takes twenty years of hard work to become

an overnight success."

-- Diana Rankin

Law of Expectations

Simply stated, the Law of Expectations tells us that whatever one expects, with confidence, becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. When one expects with confidence that good things will happen, they usually will. If, on the other hand, one expects a negative outcome to a situation, then the outcome will usually be negative.

Our expectations play a key role in our own outcomes and they also have a remarkable effect on the people around us. What we expect from those around us determines our attitude toward them more than any other factor. In turn, the people around us tend to reflect our attitudes right back at us - whether the expectations and attitudes are positive or negative, good or bad.

Dr. Robert Rosenthal of the University of California – Riverside, has spent more than 40 years studying the idea that one’s expectations for the behaviour of another, can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. His years of experimentation show this to be true. In his landmark book, “Pygmalion in the Classroom”, Rosenthal tells of case after case where teachers were told that a student, or sometimes a whole class, was extremely bright and was predicted to make a quantum leap in academic performance in the coming year. Even though the students were randomly chosen from the school population at large, provided the teacher believed that the student or students were exceptional and expected them to excel, the students performed at much higher levels than other students in the same or similar classes, and vastly better than could have been predicted by previous grades or behaviour.

The Arbinger Institute (http://www.arbinger.com) has published a terrific book called “Leadership and Self Deception – Getting out of the Box”. While the book focuses on developing superior leadership skills through being true to one’s self, they talk a lot about the way we view others and the way we expect others to act – based on our own internal prejudices. They refer to this as “being inside the box in how we view others.” It is not until we choose to view others as they really are (i.e. human beings with valuable experiences, viewpoints and inputs) that we will be able to connect at a deeper level and achieve higher degrees of understanding and communication. In other words, it is not until our expectations of others change that we can change our own experiences with them.

The obvious stands here before us – judgment. This is the downfall of many of us, when we stand in judgment of another we must be very sure that we ourselves are absolutely clean and that we are not projecting something on to the other. We need to be absolutely and brutally honest with oneself here. A wonderful clue is to monitor what is going on on the inside. If there is even the slightest hint of a reaction to a person – then there is something that you are projecting onto that person. Know then that you are placing an expectation on that person – and it will be reflected back to you. That is the law of expectations.

Take a moment to think about your own expectations – of yourself and those around you. Your expectations exert a powerful influence on people and events, for good or for bad, so be extremely careful!



What You Can Do

There are a few things that you can start doing immediately that will help you to harness the awesome power of the Law of Expectations:

1.Always expect the best! Assume the very best of intentions on the part of those around you. There is no better place to start than home. Tell your spouse and children on a regular basis that you believe in them, that you think they are wonderful, that you love them and that you are proud of them. Expecting food !!!

2.Practice these same behaviours with your staff and co-workers. The very best managers, entrepreneurs, and salespeople are "high expectations" people. Tells its own story does it not !!

3.Expect the best of yourself. Focus on your unlimited potential and imagine that you can accomplish anything that you put your mind to. Imagine that your greatest moments lie ahead and that everything that has happened to you up to now has merely been a preparation for the great things that are yet to come.

There is no mystery to achieving success - it is available to all of us. One need only be aware of, understand and live in accordance with Universal Law!

Quotes(03-04-2012)

"Men are born with two eyes, but only one tongue, in order

that they should see twice as much as they say."

-- Charles Caleb Colton

"Spend eighty percent of your time focusing on the

opportunities of tomorrow rather than the problems of

yesterday."

-- Brian Tracy

"All mankind is divided into three classes: those that are

immovable, those that are movable, and those that move."

-- Arabian Proverb

"What is a weed? A plant whose virtues have not yet been

discovered."

-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"It's so simple to be wise. Just think of something stupid to

say and then don't say it."

-- Sam Levenson

"You can take from every experience what it has to offer you.

And you cannot be defeated if you just keep taking one breath

followed by another."

-- Oprah Winfrey

"When the water starts boiling it is foolish to turn off the

heat."

-- Nelson Mandela

"Every situation, every moment -- is of infinite worth; for it

is the representative of a whole eternity."

-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

"No matter how old a mother is, she watches her middle-aged

children for signs of improvement."

-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

"The remarkable thing is that we really love our neighbour as

ourselves: we do unto others as we do unto ourselves. We hate

others when we hate ourselves. We are tolerant toward others

when we tolerate ourselves. We forgive others when we forgive

ourselves. We are prone to sacrifice others when we are ready

to sacrifice ourselves."

-- Eric Hoffer

"The happiness of life is made up of minute fractions -- the

little, soon forgotten charities of a kiss or a smile, a kind

look or heartfelt compliment."

-- Samuel Taylor Coleridge

"Humor is mankind's greatest blessing."

-- Mark Twain

"Never bear more than one trouble at a time. Some people bear

three kinds --- all they have had, all they have now, and all

they expect to have."

-- Edward Everett Hale

"If you are truly flexible and go until... there is really

very little you can't accomplish in your lifetime."

-- Anthony Robbins

"If all of our misfortunes were laid in one common heap whence

everyone must take an equal portion, most people would be

contented to take their own and depart."

-- Socrates

"What I am looking for is not out there, it is in me."

-- Helen Keller

"It's when you treat people like freaks that you become one

yourself."

-- Dolly Parton

The only true equalisers in the world are books; the only

treasure-house open to all comers is a library; the only

wealth which will not decay is knowledge; the only jewel which

you can carry beyond the grave is wisdom.

-- J. A. Langford

Law of Decision

The law of decision states that the ability to set the correct course of action and stick to it at all costs will determine the extent of your success and manifestation. Below you will find some key basics regarding the law of decision:


1. Decision means choosing a course of action and sticking to it.

This means that every other possibility apart from that one course of action has to be eliminated completely. If you do not do this, you were not making a decision in the first place. To stick to the decision completely requires a fundamental change in the state of your consciousness.

2. Refining and being careful of your habits is crucial for correct decisions.

Habits are the systems of mind and body which you have in place, and which bound your life. Your power lies in being able to only modify your habits, one step at a time. Therefore, to correctly form decisions and stick to them will require you to modify your habits sufficiently, so that sticking to your decision becomes easy. In any other case, it will become difficult.

3. Decision and the refining of habits to create it rests on single minded focus.

When you have singleness of purpose and can move in a hell-bent nature directly towards your goals, you are in the perfect mental situation to create rapid changes in consciousness. The state of consciousness will determine your state of mind and body, and changing this state through singleness to the goal gives you the necessary foundation by which you can progress to make changes from.

4. Decision is easier to perform when in the right environment.

If you have the wrong type of people around you, you are bound to procrastinate, be mentally slow, and develop a tendency towards inefficiency. However, the true nature to create manifestation must be one of getting into the right environment. So even though existence may be mental in nature, we must acknowledge that we have a physical presence in a physical environment, and use this basis to modify our lives, by getting into the right environment.

5. Making correct decisions lies on clarity of mind.

This goes without saying, but you would be surprised by how many people do not understand this. Clarity of mind means becoming emotionless, free of judgements and free of all thoughts. This is important because when we have any kind of thought in our mind, it acts as a filter to make you focus on specific types of actions and decisions. When your mind is clear, you are allowing the unconscious to creep up into your awareness without you knowing, to give the right type of thoughts to you.

What To Expect/Conclusion

When you learn to refine your habits correctly, you have a foundation which will allow you to set your decisions in the correct way. When you do this, you can commit to a course of action and reap the benefits that come with it. However, decision on its own will not lead to successful manifestation, and so you must commit to learning the whole manifestation system if you are to succeed.

Law of Belief

The law of belief states that whatever you believe, you will see. Below you will find some basic understandings of how to apply this law, and how it relates to manifestation:


1. You must defend your beliefs actively.

That is, you cannot expect the beliefs you have to remain, unless you actively defend them against other erroneous or conflicting beliefs. The best way to do this is to expand your beliefs by making others believe the way you do. This allows you to create a coherent reality where everyone around you backs up the way you think, and makes your belief and frame stronger.

2. The strength of your frame will determine the success of your beliefs.

That is, the coherence of your beliefs to project a single model and version of reality and how well you stick to them will determine the success of your beliefs. You cannot afford to have conflicting beliefs as this will weaken your frame and make it susceptible to other foreign influences.

3. Coherent beliefs create clarity of mind for manifestation.

That is, when there are no conflicting messages within your mind, and everything sets a coherent model of reality, your mind becomes clear and can correctly access its deeper mental resources. Clarity and singleness of mind acts as a mind-digging device, in which the depth and connection into deeper levels of consciousness increases, as the coherent, singleness and clarity increases.

4. You must fully understand why you believe the things you believe.

From understanding, comes evolution of consciousness and manifestation. This is because as your consciousness changes for the better, so does the manifestations which you can bring up. Understanding will bring strong mental manifestations in all areas relating to the belief. It also allows your habits to evolve and change much quicker.

5. Beliefs must not be tampered with.

That is, do not change what works. If the belief which you have is working towards your manifestations, then don't change it. This is regardless of whether you think the belief is good or not. What works must be kept. However, beliefs which are clearly poor (e.g. negative beliefs) must be eliminated at all cost.

What To Expect/Conclusion

Maintaining a strong hold of your beliefs, and being careful what kind of beliefs you listen or pay attention to, will determine your success in setting a coherent mindset of reality, and the subsequent manifestation which results. Beliefs are extremely subtle, so it is easy for the wrong beliefs to creep into our mind without us realising. It is therefore necessary to understand how and what causes these beliefs to creep in, and what we can do to stop it, to therefore ensure we can keep our manifestations going at top-speed.