LOVE Thoughts

Friday, February 25, 2011

"Love is not what makes the world go round. Love is what makes the trip
worthwhile." -Franklin Jones

"When two people are at one in their innermost hearts, they shatter even the strength of iron or bronze, and when two people understand each other in their innermost hearts, their words are sweet and strong like the fragrance of orchids." -I Ching

"Love should be a tree whose roots are deep in the earth, but whose branches extend into heaven." - Bertrand Russell

"Man has no choice but to love. For when he does not, he finds his alternative lies in loneliness, destruction, and despair." -Anonymous

"Loving people are happy, and happy people are loving." - Ken Keyes

"Who would give a law to lovers? Love is unto itself a higher law." -
Boethius

"Love is the only gold." -Tennyson

Man may try to understand love and all its effects, but unless he knows the love of God, one can never fully know love, for God IS love, and the gift He gives to us, its foundation, is constructed in love.

It is nice to show our affection to those we love by sending them flowers and candy, or doing kind deeds for them, but true love is not about fleshly desires, or emotions that make our physical bodies feel good, but it feeds the spirit as only God and His son, Jesus Christ can do. Love has one source and this source is God.

The Top 60 Ways To Show Kids You Care

1. Notice them and acknowledge them frequently.
2. Smile a lot when around them.
3. Kneel down, squat, or sit at their eye level when talking to young children.
4. Acknowledge their efforts more then their results.
5. Seek them out but also allow them space.
6. Always remember and make a big deal about their birthdays and special days (don't need to spend a lot, just make a big deal about it to let them know they are important).
7. Ask them about and talk to them about themselves and what they like.
8. Look in their eyes when you talk to them but allow them to look away if the subject is difficult.
9. Listen to them and repeat back to them what you heard them say.
10. Play with them and let them lead the play frequently, choose the toys, choose the games a lot.
11. Read aloud together.
12. Laugh, giggle, dance, sing act goofy together as much as possible.
13. Be nice and model good kind behaviors.
14. Say "yes" a lot. In fact, for each "no" find two or three things that are "yes".
15. Word things in positive terms ("Billy, use walking feet" instead of "don't run Billy")
16. Tell them their feelings are okay.
17. Set boundaries that keep them safe.
18. Allow the feelings but redirect any dangerous, destructive, or abusive actions.
19. Be honest, but keep adult information with adults.
20. Listen to their stories they are usually telling you a little something about themselves.
21. Hug them frequently but don't force a hug if they don't want one.
22. Forget your worries sometimes and concentrate only on them.
23. Notice when they're acting differently or seem to be having a lot of problems.
24. Seek professional help when they need it.
25. Present options when they seek your counsel (limit options for younger children).
26. Play outside together as much as possible.
27. Surprise them with good things or fun ideas every once in a while.
28. Stay with them when they're afraid.
29. When giving choices try to give two choices that will both accomplish what needs to be done. (Billy, we can do your homework and then watch your show or do your homework and then go outside, which would you like better)
30. When they act out make sure you have supplied plenty of other ideas of ways to behave that still allow them to feel their feelings.
31. Delight in their discoveries, share their excitement.
32. Send them a letter or postcard whenever you get a chance.
33. When you have to be away on a trip, call them a lot and bring them something small when you return.
34. Let them over hear you bragging about them or saying something good about them when they think you don't know they are there.
35. Find good things about them that are actually true and let them know often.
36. Hide surprises for them to find.
37. Give them space when they need it.
38. Contribute to their collections.
39. Discuss their dreams and nightmares.
40. Laugh at their jokes.
41. Be relaxed, calm, loving, and nurturing as much as possible.
42. Answer their questions, or even better, help them answer them.
43. Help them do things for themselves when ever possible.
44. Create a tradition with them and keep it.
45. Learn what they have to teach.
46. Use your ears more than your mouth.
47. Make yourself available.
48. Show up at their concerts, games, and events.
49. Find a common interest.
50. Hold hands during a walk.
51. Apologize when you've done something wrong.
52. Listen to their favorite music with them.
53. Keep the promises you make.
54. Take lots of pictures of them.
55. Display their artwork in your home.
56. Thank them when they do nice things for you.
57. Point out what you like about them or their work.
58. Clip magazine pictures or articles that interest them.
59. Ask them to help you do things, ask for their input.
60. Adapted from the Healthy Communities Healthy Youth

Before(By:-William Arthur Ward)

Before you speak, listen.
Before you write, think.
Before you spend, earn.
Before you invest, investigate.
Before you criticize, wait.
Before you pray, forgive.
Before you quit, try.
Before you retire, save.
Before you die, give.

Simple Friends and Real Friends

Anyone can stand by you when you are right,
but a real friend will stand by you even when you are wrong...

A simple friend identifies himself when he calls.
A real friend doesn't have to.

A simple friend opens a conversation with a full news bulletin on his life.
A real friend says, "What's new with you?"

A simple friend thinks the problems you whine about are recent.
A real friend says, "You've been whining about the same thing for 14 years. Get off your duff and do something about it."

A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.

A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had an argument.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!

Thanks for being my Real Friend!

Leadership Quotations(20-02-2011)

Friday, February 18, 2011

The Peter F. Drucker Foundation for Nonprofit Management, The Leader of the Future, (c) 1996
Leaders grow; they are not made.

Christina Baldwin
To work in the world lovingly means that we are defining what we will be for, rather than reacting to what we are against.

Robert K. Greenleaf
The only test of leadership is that somebody follows.

Lance Secretan, Industry Week, 10/12/98
Leadership is not so much about technique and methods as it is about opening the heart. Leadership is about inspiration—of oneself and of others. Great leadership is about human experiences, not processes. Leadership is not a formula or a program, it is a human activity that comes from the heart and considers the hearts of others. It is an attitude, not a routine.

More than anything else today, followers believe they are part of a system, a process that lacks heart. If there is one thing a leader can do to connect with followers at a human, or better still a spiritual level, it is to become engaged with them fully, to share experiences and emotions, and to set aside the processes of leadership we have learned by rote.

Unknown
Blessed is the leader who seeks the best for those he serves.

Peter F. Drucker
Leadership is not magnetic personality—that can just as well be a glib tongue. It is not "making friends and influencing people"—that is flattery. Leadership is lifting a person's vision to higher sights, the raising of a person's performance to a higher standard, the building of a personality beyond its normal limitations.

Robert L. Payton
American philanthropic custom owes much to leadership by business and professional people.

Lao Tzu
A leader is best when people barely know he exists, not so good when people obey and acclaim him, worse when they despise him....But of a good leader who talks little when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say, "We did it ourselves.

Chinese proverb
An army of a thousand is easy to find, but, ah, how difficult to find a general.

Lao Tzu
Be gentle and you can be bold; be frugal and you can be liberal; avoid putting yourself before others and you can become a leader among men.

Donald H. McGannon
Leadership is action, not position.

Fred Smith
Leadership is getting people to work for you when they are not obligated.

Anon
A real leader faces the music, even when he doesn't like the tune.

Mary D. Poole
Leadership should be more participative than directive, more enabling than performing.

Marian Anderson
Leadership should be born out of the understanding of the needs of those who would be affected by it.

James L. Fisher
The main characteristics of effective leadership are intelligence, integrity or loyalty, mystique, humor, discipline, courage, self sufficieny and confidence.

Harold J. Seymour
Leaders are the ones who keep faith with the past, keep step with the present, and keep the promise to posterity.

Peter Ferdinand Drucker
Effective leadership is not about making speeches or being liked; leadership is defined by results not attributes.

Harold J. Seymour
When the leadership is right and the time is right, the people can always be counted upon to follow—to the end and at all costs.

Charles deGaulle
A true leader always keeps an element of surprise up his sleeve, which others cannot grasp but which keeps his public excited and breathless.

Unkown
A good leader inspires others with confidence in him; a great leader inspires them with confidence in themselves.

Franklin D. Roosevelt
A good leader can't get too far ahead of his followers.

Tacitus
Forethought and prudence are the proper qualities of a leader.

Tom Landry
Leadership is getting someone to do what they don't want to do, to achieve what they want to achieve.

Max DePree
Leadership is much more an art, a belief, a condition of the heart, than a set of things to do. The visible signs of artful leadership are expressed, ultimately, in its practice.

Warren Bennis
Good leaders make people feel that they're at the very heart of things, not at the periphery. Everyone feels that he or she makes a difference to the success of the organization. When that happens people feel centered and that gives their work meaning.

John F. Kennedy
Leadership and learning are indispensable to each other.

Edgar Powell
No organization is stronger than the quality of its leadership, or ever extends its constituency far beyond the degree to which its leadership is representative.

James L. Fisher
Leadership is the special quality which enables people to stand up and pull the rest of us over the horizon.

Dwight D. Eisenhower
Leadership: the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it.

Manual on military leadership
Good leaders develop through a never-ending process of self-study, education, training, and experience.

Chinese proverb
He who cannot agree with his enemies is controlled by them.

Donald H. McGannon
Leadership is action, not position.

Bernd Brecher
There are many elements to a campaign.Leadership is number one. Everything else is number two.

Anthony T. Dadovano
A good leader is not the person who does things right, but the person who finds the right things to do.

Talleyrand
I am more afraid of an army of 100 sheep led by a lion than an army of 100 lions led by a sheep.

Walter Lippmann
The final test of a leader is that he leaves behind him in other men the conviction and the will to carry on.

Abigail Adams
Great necessities call forth great leaders.

Charles S. Lauer
Leaders don't force people to follow—they invite them on a journey.

Harold S. Hulbert
Children need love especially when they don't deserve it.

Ralph Nader
I start with the premise that the function of leadership is to produce more leaders, not more followers.

Jesse Jackson
Leadership has a harder job to do than just choose sides. It must bring sides together.

Knute Rockne - Professional Football Coach
I have to get the most energy out of a man and have discovered that it cannot be done if he hates another man. Hate blocks his energy and he isn't up to par until he eliminates it and develops a friendly feeling...(towards all his teammates.)

John Maxwell
The first step to leadership is servanthood.

Max DePree (The Art of Leadership)
The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality.

Leadership Quotations(19-02-2011)

Do not follow where the path may lead.Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.
Harold R. McAlindon
(also attributed to Emerson and others)

Leadership: The art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it.
Dwight D. Eisenhower

There go the people.I must follow them for I am their leader.
Alexandre Ledru-Rollin

The history of the world is but the biography of great men.
Thomas Carlyle

What chance gathers she easily scatters. A great person attracts great people and knows how to hold them together.
Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe

A general is just as good or just as bad as the troops under his command make him.
General Douglas MacArthur

The real leader has no need to lead--he is content to point the way.
Henry Miller

Go to the people. Learn from them. Live with them. Start with what they know. Build with what they have. The best of leaders when the job is done, when the task is accomplished, the people will say we have done it ourselves.
Lao Tzu

A leader is a dealer in hope.
Napoleon Bonaparte

Rely on your own strength of body and soul. Take for your star self-reliance, faith, honesty and industry. Don't take too much advice — keep at the helm and steer your own ship, and remember that the great art of commanding is to take a fair share of the work. Fire above the mark you intend to hit. Energy, invincible determination with the right motive, are the levers that move the world.
Noah Porter

If your actions inspire others to dream more,learn more, do more and become more,
you are a leader.
John Quincy Adams

He who has never learned to obey cannot be a good commander.
Aristotle

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
(from Christian Leadership World)

Any one can hold the helm when the sea is calm.
Publilius Syrus

A leader is a dealer in hope.
Napoleon Bonaparte

Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do and they will surprise you with their ingenuity.
George Patton
(from Big Dog's Quotes)

Where there is no vision, the people perish.
Proverbs 29:18

Misfortunes, untoward events, lay open, disclose the skill of a general, while success conceals his weakness, his weak points.
Horace

In this world a man must either be an anvil or hammer.
Henry W. Longfellow

I light my candle from their torches.
Robert Burton

Leadership does not always wear the harness of compromise.
Woodrow Wilson

The greater a man is in power above others, the more he ought to excel them in virtue. None ought to govern who is not better than the governed.
Publius Syrus

A bold onset is half the battle.
Giuseppe Garibaldi

The power is detested, and miserable the life, of him who wishes to be feared rather than to be loved.
Cornelius Nepos

To be a great leader and so always master of the situation, one must of necessity have been a great thinker in action. An eagle was never yet hatched from a goose's egg.
James Thomas

Ill can he rule the great that cannot reach the small.
Edmund Spenser

He who has learned how to obey will know how to command.
Solon

When I give a minister an order, I leave it to him to find the means to carry it out.
Napoleon Bonaparte

No man can stand on top because he is put there.
H. H. Vreeland

A ruler should be slow to punish and swift to reward.
Ovid

It is impossible to imagine anything which better becomes a ruler than mercy.
Seneca

No man is good enough to govern another man without that other's consent.
Abraham Lincoln

What you cannot enforce / Do not command.
Sophocles

No general can fight his battles alone. He must depend upon his lieutenants, and his success depends upon his ability to select the right man for the right place.
Philip Armour

To do great things is difficult; but to command great things is more difficult.
Friedrich Nietzsche


It is absurd that a man should rule others, who cannot rule himself. (Absurdum est ut alios regat, qui seipsum regere nescit.)
Latin Proverb

Let he him who would be moved to convince others, be first moved to convince himself.
Thomas Carlyle

A good general not only sees the way to victory; he also knows when victory is impossible.
Polybius

Famous Quotes for Training and Development

"I think, therefore I am (Cogito, ergo sum.)" - Descartes

"The art of teaching is the art of assisting discovery." - Mark Van Doren, poet

"It is by teaching that we teach ourselves, by relating that we observe, by affirming that we examine, by showing that we look, by writing that we think, by pumping that we draw water into the well." - Henri-Frederic Amiel (1821-81), Swiss philosopher, poet.

"Learning without thought is labor lost. Thought without learning is intellectual death." - Confucius

"I have never let my schooling interfere with my education." - Mark Twain

"Knowledge in the form of an informational commodity indispensable to productive power is already, and will continue to be, a major-perhaps the major-stake in the worldwide competition for power. It is conceivable that the nation-states will one day fight for control of information, just as they battled in the past for control over territory, and afterwards for control over access to and exploitation of raw materials and cheap labor." - Jean Francois Lyotard, French philosopher.

"There can be no knowledge without emotion. We may be aware of a truth, yet until we have felt its force, it is not ours. To the cognition of the brain must be added the experience of the soul." - Arnold Bennett, British novelist.

"What I hear, I forget.
What I see, I remember.
What I do, I understand."
- Confucius

"When you know something, say what you know. When you don't know something, say that you don't know. That is knowledge." - Confucius

"To know yet to think that one does not know is best;
Not to know yet to think that one knows will lead to difficulty."
- Lao Tzu

"Wisdom lies neither in fixity nor in change, but in the dialectic between the two." - Octavio Paz

"The road to wisdom?-Well, it's plain and simple to express:
Err
and err
and err again
but less
and less
and less."
- Piet Hein, Danish inventor and poet

"Some, for renown, on scraps of learning dote,
And think they grow immortal as they quote."
- Edward Young

"Education is what survives when what has been learned has been forgotten." - B. F. Skinner

"Training is everything. The peach was once a bitter almond; cauliflower is nothing but cabbage with a college education." - Mark Twain

"Retention is best when the learner is involved." - Edward Scannell, University Conference Bureau, Arizona

"I never teach my pupils; I only attempt to provide the conditions in which they can learn." - Albert Einstein

"It's all to do with the training: you can do a lot if you're properly trained."
- Elizabeth II, Queen of Great Britain

"The only kind of learning which significantly influences behavior is self-discovered or self-appropriated learning - truth that has been assimilated in experience." - Carl Rogers

"You cannot teach a man anything. You can only help him discover it within himself." - Galileo Galilei

"The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing." - John Powell

"Knowing is not enough; we must apply.
Willing is not enough we must do." - Goethe

"Live as if your were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever." - Gandhi

"I cannot teach anybody anything, I can only make them think." - Socrates

"The teacher if he is indeed wise does not teach bid you to enter the house of wisdom but leads you to the threshold of your own mind." - Kahlil Gilbran, poet and painter

"The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new lands, but in seeing with new eyes." - Marcel Proust, French novelist

"The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires." - William Arthur Ward

The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership

1. The Law of the Lid- Leadership Ability Determines a Person’s Level of
Effectiveness
2. The Law of Influence- The True Measure of Leadership Is Influence- Nothing
More, Nothing Less
3. The Law of Process- Leadership Develops Daily, Not in a Day
4. The Law of Navigation- Anyone Can Steer the Ship, But It Takes a Leader to
Chart the Course
5. The Law of E.F. Hutton- When the Real Leader Speaks, People Listen
6. The Law of Solid Ground- Trust is the Foundation of Leadership
7. The Law of Respect- People Naturally Follow Leaders Stronger Than
Themselves
8. The Law of Intuition- Leaders Evaluate Everything with a Leadership Bias
9. The Law of Magnetism- Who You Are Is Who You Attract
10. The Law of Connection- Leaders Touch a Heart Before They Ask for a Hand
11. The Law of the Inner Circle- A Leader’s Potential Is Determined by Those
Closest to Him
12. The Law of Empowerment- Only Secure Leaders Give Power to Others
13. The Law of Reproduction- It Takes a Leader to Raise Up a Leader
14. The Law of Buy-In- People Buy Into the Leader, Then the Vision
15. The Law of Victory- Leaders Find a Way for the Team to Win
16. The Law of the Big Mo- Momentum Is a Leader’s Best Friend
17. The Law of Priorities- Leaders Understand That Activity Is Not Necessarily
Accomplishment
18. The Law of Sacrifice- A Leader Must Give Up to Go Up
19. The Law of Timing- When to Lead Is As Important As What To Do and Where to Go
20. The Law of Explosive Growth- To Add Growth, Lead Followers- To Multiply
Leaders, Lead Leaders
21. The Law of Legacy- A Leader’s Lasting Value Is Measured by Succession

A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way and shows the way.
~ John C. Maxwell

Leadership Quotes(18-02-2011)

Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things.
Peter F. Drucker
Don’t tell people how to do things, tell them what to do and let them surprise you with their results.
George S. Patton
Leadership is the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because
he wants to do it.
Dwight Eisenhower
A leader is a dealer in hope.
Napoleon Bonaparte
I must follow the people. Am I not their leader?
Benjamin Disraeli
The leadership instinct you are born with is the backbone. You develop the funny bone and the wishbone that go with it.
Elaine Agather
Delegating work works, provided the one delegating works, too.
Robert Half
Only one man in a thousand is a leader of men -- the other 999 follow women.
Groucho Marx
The very essence of leadership is that you have to have vision. You can’t blow an uncertain trumpet.
Theodore M. Hesburgh
The best executive is the one who has sense enough to pick good men to do what he wants done, and self-restraint to keep from meddling with them while they do it.
Theodore Roosevelt
A man who wants to lead the orchestra must turn his back on the crowd.
James Crook
People cannot be managed. Inventories can be managed, but people must be led.
H. Ross Perot
If the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch.
The Bible
Do you wish to rise? Begin by descending. You plan a tower that will pierce the clouds? Lay first the foundation of humility.
St. Augustine
Pull the string, and it will follow wherever you wish. Push it, and it will go nowhere at all.
Dwight D. Eisenhower
Life is like a dogsled team. If you ain’t the lead dog, the scenery never changes.
Lewis Grizzard
A leader is best when people barely know he exists, not so good when people obey and acclaim him, worse when they despise him. But of a good leader who talks little when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: We did it ourselves.
Lao-Tzu
It is a terrible thing to look over your shoulder when you are trying to lead -- and find no one there.
Franklin D. Roosevelt
What you cannot enforce, do not command.
Sophocles
The question, ‘Who ought to be boss?’, is like asking, ‘Who ought to be the tenor in the quartet?’ Obviously, the man who can sing tenor.
Henry Ford
Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things.
Peter Drucker
A sense of humor is part of the art of leadership, of getting along with people, of getting
things done.
Dwight D. Eisenhower
Leadership and learning are indispensable to each other.
John F. Kennedy
One of the hardest tasks of leadership is understanding that you are not what you are, but what you’re perceived to be by others.
Edward L. Flom
Leadership is based on inspiration, not domination; on cooperation, not intimidation.
William Arthur Wood
The art of leadership is saying no, not yes. It is very easy to say yes.
Tony Blair
Leadership is communicating to people their worth and potential so clearly that they come to see it in themselves.
Stephen Covey
The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading
them. They have either lost confidence that you can help them or concluded that you do not care. Either case is a failure of leadership.
Colin Powell
Men make history, and not the other way around. In periods where there is no leadership,
society stands still. Progress occurs when courageous, skillful leaders seize the opportunity to change things for the better.
Harry S Truman
Leadership should be born out of the understanding of the needs of those who would be affected by it.
Marian Anderson
Leadership has a harder job to do than just choose sides. It must bring sides together.
Jesse Jackson
The only real training for leadership is leadership.
Anthony Jay
I start with the premise that the function of leadership is to produce more leaders, not more followers.
Ralph Nader
Whether a man is burdened by power or enjoys power; whether he is trapped by responsibility or made free by it; whether he is moved by other people and outer forces or moves them -- this is of the essence of leadership.
Theodore H. White
You do not lead by hitting people over the head-that’s assault, not leadership.
Dwight D. Eisenhower
Leadership is practiced not so much in words as in attitude and in actions.
Harold Geneen,
The leadership instinct you are born with is the backbone. You develop the funny bone and the wishbone that go with it.
Elaine Agather
Good leadership consists in showing average people how to do the work of superior people.
John D. Rockefeller
Leadership is lifting a person’s vision to higher sights, the raising of a person’s performance
to a higher standard.
Peter Drucker
The leaven of true leadership cannot lift others unless we are with and serve those to be led.
Spencer W. Kimball
One person’s candle is a light for many. – TALMUD
"To lead people, walk beside them ... As for the best leaders, the people do not notice their
existence. The next best, the people honor and praise. The next, the people fear; and the next,
the people hate ... When the best leader's work is done the people say, 'We did it ourselves!'"
— Lao-tsu
"Control is not leadership; management is not leadership; leadership is leadership. If you seek to
lead, invest at least 50% of your time in leading yourself—your own purpose, ethics, principles,
motivation, conduct. Invest at least 20% leading those with authority over you and 15% leading
your peers."
— Dee Hock, Founder and CEO Emeritus, Visa
"All of the great leaders have had one characteristic in common: it was the willingness to
confront unequivocally the major anxiety of their people in their time. This, and not much else, is
the essence of leadership."
— John Kenneth Galbraith
"If a rhinoceros were to enter this restaurant now, there is no denying he would have great
power here. But I should be the first to rise and assure him that he had no authority whatever."
— G.K. Chesterton to Alexander Woollcott
Act while you can: While you have the chance, the means, and the strength. – TALMUD
"The task of the leader is to get his people from where they are to where they have not been."
— Henry Kissinger
"No institution can possibly survive if it needs geniuses or supermen to manage it. It must be
organized in such a way as to be able to get along under a leadership composed of average
human beings."
— Peter Drucker
"The task of leadership is not to put greatness into people, but to elicit it, for the greatness is
there already."
— John Buchan
Do not stand idly by the blood of your neighbor. – LEVITICUS 19:16
"You do not lead by hitting people over the head — that's assault, not leadership."
— Dwight D. Eisenhower
"The best is he who calls men to the best. And those who heed the call are also blessed. But
worthless who call not, heed not, but rest."
— Hesiod, 8th Century BC Greek poet
A nation needs its guides and shepherds, its scouts and leaders of the flock who will carry out
the function of leadership: the ability to feel and the power to think. – RABBI ADIN STEINSALTZ
"Never give an order that can't be obeyed."
— General Douglas MacArthur
"Great leaders are almost always great simplifiers, who can cut through argument, debate, and
doubt to offer a solution everybody can understand."
— General Colin Powell
For the sake of Zion, I will not remain silent. For the sake of Jerusalem, I will not rest. ISAIAH
62:1
"Men make history and not the other way around. In periods where there is no leadership,
society stands still. Progress occurs when courageous, skillful leaders seize the opportunity to
change things for the better."
— Harry Truman
"The leader is one who mobilizes others toward a goal shared by leaders and followers. ...
Leaders, followers and goals make up the three equally necessary supports for leadership."
— Gary Wills, Certain Trumpets: The Call of Leaders
A person should first put one’s house together, then one’s town, then the world. – RABBI
ISRAEL SALANTER
"A leader is one who influences a specific group of people to move in a God-given direction."
— J. Robert Clinton
"All Leadership is influence." — John C. Maxwell, Injoy, Inc.
We do not know the extent of our own power to change and to effect change. But we must act;
that is in our power. – RABBI BARUCH BOKSER
"You cannot be a leader, and ask other people to follow you, unless you know how to follow,
too." — Sam Rayburn
"Your position never gives you the right to command. It only imposes on you the duty of so living
your life that others may receive your orders without being humiliated." — Dag Hammarskjöld
"The final test of a leader is that he leaves behind him in other men, the conviction and the will to
carry on." — Walter Lippmann
Lead me to a rock that is too high for me. – PSALM 61:3
"A leader is best when people barely know he exists, not so good when people obey and
acclaim him, worst when they despise him. But of a good leader, who talks little, when his work
is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say, 'We did this ourselves.'" — Lao-Tse
"People ask the difference between a leader and a boss. The leader leads, and the boss drives."
— Theodore Roosevelt
"The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between,
the leader is a servant."
— Max DePree
"Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far."
— Theodore Roosevelt
You need not complete the work but you are not free to desist from it. – MISHNAH
"Management is efficiency in climbing the ladder of success; leadership determines whether the
ladder is leaning against the right wall."
— Stephen R. Covey
"He who has great power should use it lightly."
— Seneca
"How do you know you have won? When the energy is coming the other way and when your
people are visibly growing individually and as a group."
— Sir John Harvey-Jones
"He makes a great mistake ... who supposes that authority is firmer or better established when it
is founded by force than that which is welded by affection."
— Terence
"The leader must know, must know that he knows, and must be able to make it abundantly clear
to those around him that he knows."
— Clarence Randall
"You don't lead by pointing and telling people some place to go. You lead by going to that place
and making a case."
— Ken Kesey
"As a leader, you're probably not doing a good job unless your employees can do a good
impression of you when you're not around."
— Patrick Lencioni
"Look over your shoulder now and then to be sure someone's following you."
— Henry Gilmer
"Leadership is not magnetic personality, that can just as well be a glib tongue. It is not "making
friends and influencing people", that is flattery. Leadership is lifting a person's vision to higher
sights, the raising of a person's performance to a higher standard, the building of a personality
beyond its normal limitations."
— Peter F. Drucker
"Leadership is the ability to establish standards and manage a creative climate where people are
self-motivated toward the mastery of long term constructive goals, in a participatory environment
of mutual respect, compatible with personal values."
— Mike Vance
"The older I get the less I listen to what people say and the more I look at what they do."
— Andrew Carnegie
"My own definition of leadership is this: The capacity and the will to rally men and women to a
common purpose and the character which inspires confidence."
— General Montgomery
"High sentiments always win in the end, The leaders who offer blood, toil, tears and sweat
always get more out of their followers than those who offer safety and a good time. When it
comes to the pinch, human beings are heroic."
— George Orwell
"Our chief want is someone who will inspire us to be what we know we could be."
— Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Before you are a leader, success is all about growing yourself. When you become a leader,
success is all about growing others."
— Jack Welch
"I think that the best training a top manager can be engaged in is management by example. I
want to make sure there is no discrepancy between what we say and what we do. If you preach
accountability and then promote somebody with bad results, it doesn't work. I personally believe
the best training is management by example. Don't believe what I say. Believe what I do."
— Carlos Ghosn, CEO of Renault-Nissan
Do not wait for leaders. Do it alone, person to person. -- Mother Teresa
Leadership should be more participative than directive, more enabling than performing. -- Mary D. Poole
My grandfather once told me that there were two kinds of people: those who do the work and those who take the credit. He told me to try to be in the first group. There is much less
competition. --Indira Gandhi
The quality of a leader is reflected in the standards they set for themselves. -- Ray Kroc
It is not fair to ask of others what you are unwilling to do yourself. -- Anna Eleanor Roosevelt
A leader takes people where they want to go. A great leader takes people where they don't necessarily want to go, but ought to be. -- Rosalynn Carter
Do not separate yourself from the community. – MISHNAH